When it comes to Rosalía and Rauw’s relationship, nothing is off the table—these two are incredibly real and open with one another. Donaldson can tell from their tie signs.

Their whatta signs? Let her explain: “Tie signs are gestures that signal that partners want to be physically connected and are in love.” In this image, for example, some tie signs that Rosalía and Rauw exhibit are: sharing a singular space and sitting in the same chair together—reducing all area between them and maximizing the amount they’re touching each other, says Donaldson.

And although Rauw is doing something on his phone and not looking at Rosalía, “the gesture of sharing space while doing their own thing [shows] that they’re super comfortable with each other and their relationship,” Donaldson notes.